defending, conviction, standing ground

Seven of Wands as feelings

“I'll stand up for us, whatever anyone says.”

The Seven of Wands as feelings is defensiveness. This person feels they have to protect what they feel or what you have, against others or against their own doubts. They care, but they are on guard.

What they may be feeling

Defending the relationship.
Feeling challenged or judged by others.
Determination not to give up.

Seven of Wands reversed as feelings

“I feel worn out from always defending us.”

Reversed, the fight wears them out. They may feel overwhelmed, give up defending, or feel attacked by you instead of supported.

Depending on where you are

Someone new: They feel competition, or obstacles in the way.
In a relationship: They protect the relationship from outside pressure.
After a breakup: They defend their decision, or their pride.

Yes or no?

Not yet / it depends. They will fight for it, if they feel it is worth it.

Cards it often sits with

Five of Wands: conflict and competition.
Nine of Wands: tiredness from defending.
The Chariot: determination to win.

Questions people ask

What does Seven of Wands mean as feelings?

They feel protective and defensive: they care about you but feel they have to fight for it.

What does Seven of Wands reversed mean as feelings?